In 'Marriage, a History,' Stephanie Coontz uncovers the rich and complex evolution of marriage, revealing how its meaning and significance have transformed dramatically over centuries. She challenges the conventional notions of love and partnership, showing that marriage has often been more about economic and social arrangements than romantic love. Coontz delves into historical practices from various cultures, uncovering surprising truths that redefine our understanding of commitment and family. With compelling narratives and rich detail, this book invites readers to reassess their beliefs about the institution of marriage. Prepare to question everything you thought you knew about the bonds that tie us together!
By Stephanie Coontz
Published: 2006
"Marriage has been shaped by economic, social, and cultural forces throughout history, and understanding its evolution allows us to understand our own relationships today."
Just when the clamor over "traditional" marriage couldn’t get any louder, along comes this groundbreaking book to ask, "What tradition?" In Marriage, a History, historian and marriage expert Stephanie Coontz takes readers from the marital intrigues of ancient Babylon to the torments of Victorian lovers to demonstrate how recent the idea of marrying for love is—and how absurd it would have seemed to most of our ancestors. It was when marriage moved into the emotional sphere in the nineteenth century, she argues, that it suffered as an institution just as it began to thrive as a personal relationship. This enlightening and hugely entertaining book brings intelligence, perspective, and wit to today’s marital debate.
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Stephanie Coontz is a renowned author and historian specializing in the social and economic history of the family. She is best known for her works such as 'The Way We Never Were: American Families and the Nostalgia Trap' and 'Marriage, a History: From Obedience to Freedom.' Coontz's writing combines meticulous research with a compelling narrative style, making complex topics accessible and engaging to a broad audience. She often challenges traditional views of family structures and relationships, offering insights that stimulate conversation and reflection on modern social issues.
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