In 'The Fantasy Bond,' Firestone, Seiden, and Catlett explore the intricate relationship between love and illusion, revealing how idealized fantasies can hinder genuine intimacy. The authors argue that many people construct emotional defenses that masquerade as deep connections, ultimately leading to dissatisfaction. Through insightful analysis, they guide readers to recognize and dismantle these fantasy bonds in their own lives. This enlightening work encourages a shift from superficial attachments to authentic relationships rooted in reality. Dive into a thought-provoking journey that challenges your perceptions of love and fulfillment.
By Robert W. Firestone, Richard Seiden, Joyce Catlett
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"The deepest connections we seek are often obscured by the illusions we create to protect ourselves."
Based on 28 years of research into the problem of resistance, this book offers a consistently developed hypothesis centering around the concept of the "Fantasy Bond, " an illusion of connection originally formed with the mother and later with significant others in the individual's environment.
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