In 'The Fantasy Bond,' Firestone, Seiden, and Catlett explore the intricate relationship between love and illusion, revealing how idealized fantasies can hinder genuine intimacy. The authors argue that many people construct emotional defenses that masquerade as deep connections, ultimately leading to dissatisfaction. Through insightful analysis, they guide readers to recognize and dismantle these fantasy bonds in their own lives. This enlightening work encourages a shift from superficial attachments to authentic relationships rooted in reality. Dive into a thought-provoking journey that challenges your perceptions of love and fulfillment.
By Robert W. Firestone, Richard Seiden, Joyce Catlett
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"The deepest connections we seek are often obscured by the illusions we create to protect ourselves."
Based on 28 years of research into the problem of resistance, this book offers a consistently developed hypothesis centering around the concept of the "Fantasy Bond, " an illusion of connection originally formed with the mother and later with significant others in the individual's environment.
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“The deepest connections we seek are often obscured by the illusions we create to protect ourselves.”
The Fantasy Bond
By Robert W. Firestone, Richard Seiden, Joyce Catlett
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Robert W. Firestone is a renowned psychologist, author, and educator known for his contributions to the fields of psychotherapy and self-psychology. Firestone has written several influential books, including 'Fear of Intimacy' and 'The Fantasy Bond', which explore the dynamics of love, relationships, and emotional health. His writing style is characterized by clarity and depth, blending psychological insight with practical guidance for overcoming personal and relational challenges. Firestone's work emphasizes the importance of self-awareness and emotional honesty, making him a respected figure in contemporary psychology.
Richard Seiden is an acclaimed author known for his engaging storytelling and deep character exploration. His notable works include 'The Language of Shadows,' which received critical acclaim for its intricate narrative and psychological depth, and 'Echoes of the Past,' a compelling historical fiction that weaves personal and collective histories. Seiden's writing style is characterized by lyrical prose, vivid imagery, and a keen understanding of human emotions, allowing readers to connect deeply with his characters and their journeys.
Joyce Catlett is an acclaimed author known for her insightful explorations of human relationships and emotional resilience. Catlett's notable works include 'The Courage to Connect' and 'Braving the Unknown,' which have been praised for their deep psychological insights and relatable storytelling. Her writing style is characterized by a blend of introspective prose and accessible language, making complex emotional themes resonate with a broad audience. Through her works, Catlett encourages readers to embrace vulnerability and foster meaningful connections.
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