The War for Kindness

In 'The War for Kindness,' Jamil Zaki challenges the notion that empathy is a fixed trait, revealing it as a skill we can cultivate. Through compelling stories and groundbreaking research, he shows how acts of compassion can counteract societal divisions. As he explores the science behind kindness, Zaki urges us to embrace vulnerability and connection in a fragmented world. Each chapter serves as a reminder that our ability to empathize is not only vital for personal relationships but essential for societal progress. Join Zaki on this transformative journey to rediscover the power of kindness and its potential to heal humanity.

By Jamil Zaki

Published: 2019

"In a world that often seems divided, kindness is our strongest weapon against isolation; it's not merely an act, but a choice that connects us all."

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Jamil Zaki

Jamil Zaki is a renowned psychologist and author, acclaimed for his insights into human emotion and behavior. He serves as an associate professor of psychology at Stanford University and is the director of the Stanford Social Neuroscience Lab. Zaki's notable works include 'The War for Kindness: Building Empathy in a Fractured World', where he explores the science of empathy and its importance for social cohesion. His writing style is characterized by a blend of rigorous scientific research and engaging storytelling, making complex psychological concepts accessible to a wide audience. Zaki's work has been featured in prestigious publications such as The New York Times and The Atlantic, establishing him as a prominent voice in contemporary discussions on empathy and human connection.

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Authors
Jamil Zaki
Published
January 2019
Publisher
Crown Publishing Group (NY)
ISBN
0451499247
Language
English
Pages
274
Genres
Self-HelpCompassion and Self-LovePsychologyEmotional Intelligence

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In a world that often seems divided, kindness is our strongest weapon against isolation; it's not merely an act, but a choice that connects us all.

The War for Kindness

By Jamil Zaki

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