You're Better Than Me

In "You're Better Than Me," Bonnie McFarlane takes readers on a captivating journey through the intricacies of self-perception and the social fabric of modern life. With her sharp wit and unapologetic humor, she explores the clash between ambition and reality, delving into the absurdity of competition among friends and society. Each page is filled with relatable anecdotes and profound insights that challenge the reader's understanding of success and self-worth. Can you truly measure your value against others, or is the real competition within? Join McFarlane as she unearths the truth about being 'better' in a world obsessed with comparison.

By Bonnie McFarlane

Published: 2016

""In a world that constantly tells us to be more, to strive harder, sometimes the best thing we can do is to embrace our imperfections and find humor in our own chaos.""

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In the spirit of Mindy Kaling, Kelly Oxford, and Sarah Silverman, a compulsively readable and outrageously funny memoir of growing up as a fish out of water, finding your voice, and embracing your inner crazy-person, from popular actress, writer, and comedian Bonnie McFarlane. It took Bonnie McFarlane a lot of time, effort, and tequila to get to where she is today. Before she starred on Last Comic Standing and directed her own films, she was an inappropriately loud tomboy growing up on her parents’ farm in Cold Lake, Canada, wetting her pants during standardized tests and killing chickens. Desperate to find “her people”—like-minded souls who wouldn’t judge her because she was honest, ruthless, and okay, sometimes really rude—Bonnie turned to comedy. In her explosively funny and no-holds-barred memoir, Bonnie tells it like it is, and lays bare all of her smart (and her not-so-smart) decisions along her way to finding her friends and her comedic voice. From fistfights in elementary school to riding motorcycles to the World Famous Comic Strip, to Late Night with David Letterman, and through to her infamous “c” word bit on Last Comic Standing, You’re Better Than Me is her funny and outrageous trip through the good, bad, and ugly of her life in comedy. McFarlane doesn’t always keep her mouth shut when she should, but at least she makes people laugh. And that’s all that matters, right?

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Bonnie McFarlane

Bonnie McFarlane is a renowned author and comedian known for her sharp wit and insightful observations on contemporary life and relationships. Her notable works include 'You're Better Than Me,' a critically acclaimed memoir that delves into her experiences in the comedy world, and 'Women Are Hungry,' which explores themes of gender and identity through a humorous lens. McFarlane's writing is characterized by its candidness, humor, and intelligence, offering readers both entertainment and thought-provoking commentary.

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Authors
Bonnie McFarlane
Published
February 2016
Publisher
Anthony Bourdain/Ecco
ISBN
0062319493
Language
English
Pages
N/A
Genres
Self-HelpMindset for ProductivityPsychologyPersonal Growth

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"In a world that constantly tells us to be more, to strive harder, sometimes the best thing we can do is to embrace our imperfections and find humor in our own chaos."

You're Better Than Me

By Bonnie McFarlane

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