In "Against Empathy," Paul Bloom challenges the conventional wisdom that empathy is essential for morality and human connection. He argues that our emotional responses can lead to biased and destructive decisions, often exacerbating conflict rather than resolving it. Instead of empathy, Bloom proposes that rational compassion, grounded in reason and morality, is a more effective tool for understanding and addressing the suffering of others. The book presents compelling insights from psychology, ethics, and neuroscience, urging readers to rethink their emotional instincts. Dive in to discover how cultivating a more thoughtful approach to our humanity can pave the way for a more just and equitable society.
By Paul Bloom
Published: 2016
"Empathy can lead us to make choices that are not only morally misguided but that also harm the people we are trying to help."
New York Post Best Book of 2016 We often think of our capacity to experience the suffering of others as the ultimate source of goodness. Many of our wisest policy-makers, activists, scientists, and philosophers agree that the only problem with empathy is that we don’t have enough of it. Nothing could be farther from the truth, argues Yale researcher Paul Bloom. In AGAINST EMPATHY, Bloom reveals empathy to be one of the leading motivators of inequality and immorality in society. Far from helping us to improve the lives of others, empathy is a capricious and irrational emotion that appeals to our narrow prejudices. It muddles our judgment and, ironically, often leads to cruelty. We are at our best when we are smart enough not to rely on it, but to draw instead upon a more distanced compassion. Basing his argument on groundbreaking scientific findings, Bloom makes the case that some of the worst decisions made by individuals and nations—who to give money to, when to go to war, how to respond to climate change, and who to imprison—are too often motivated by honest, yet misplaced, emotions. With precision and wit, he demonstrates how empathy distorts our judgment in every aspect of our lives, from philanthropy and charity to the justice system; from medical care and education to parenting and marriage. Without empathy, Bloom insists, our decisions would be clearer, fairer, and—yes—ultimately more moral. Brilliantly argued, urgent and humane, AGAINST EMPATHY shows us that, when it comes to both major policy decisions and the choices we make in our everyday lives, limiting our impulse toward empathy is often the most compassionate choice we can make.
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“Empathy can lead us to make choices that are not only morally misguided but that also harm the people we are trying to help.”
Against Empathy
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Paul Bloom is a renowned psychologist and author celebrated for his insightful exploration of the human mind and behavior. He is the author of several notable works, including 'How Pleasure Works', 'Just Babies: The Origins of Good and Evil', and 'Against Empathy: The Case for Rational Compassion'. Bloom's writing combines rigorous scientific research with accessible prose, often delving into the complexities of morality, empathy, and the foundations of human experience. His work challenges conventional notions and encourages readers to engage in deeper reflections on the nature of happiness and ethics.
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