In 'Learning to Love Yourself,' Gay Hendricks takes readers on a transformative journey to discover the power of self-acceptance. Through a combination of personal anecdotes and practical exercises, he unveils the profound impact of loving oneself on relationships and overall happiness. Hendricks challenges societal norms that often breed self-doubt, encouraging a radical shift in mindset. As readers explore their inner dialogues, they are invited to break free from the chains of criticism and embrace their true essence. This book is not just a guide; it's an awakening that promises to reshape your understanding of love—starting from within.
By Gay Hendricks
Published: 2011
"'The first step to true love is learning to love yourself.'"
An Invitation From Gay HendricksI am thrilled and delighted to offer to you the new edition of Learning To Love Yourself. Revisiting and rewriting the book has been a pleasure from beginning to end. With its new elements, the book comes alive in a whole new way.Looking back over more than three decades to the moment of its conception, I can now see how writing this book changed my life in every way.I first wrote it as an act of love, to share an experience that feels as if it's still transforming me in my very cells. It was my hope that telling about the experience could inspire the same profound life-changes in others. The many thousands of letters, emails and spoken appreciations I've received since then let me know that my hope came true.The experience described in the book revealed the living mystery of love to me, allowing me to feel its sweet power for the first time. Because I suddenly knew what real love felt like, I was able to break free of my pattern of painful relationships with women. Ultimately it helped me find my way to Kathlyn, the love of my life and my wife for the past quarter-century.The new edition is ideal for giving to loved ones (including yourself!) who are on the journey to forgiving, accepting and loving themselves. It tells you how I came to an acceptance and unconditional love of even the most difficult-to-love parts of myself.My fondest wish is that you use it for exactly the same purpose, with exactly the same result.
Gay Hendricks is a prominent author, speaker, and therapist renowned for his contributions to the fields of personal development and self-help. He is best known for his notable works, including 'The Big Leap,' 'Conscious Loving,' and 'Five Wishes,' which explore the intersection of psychology, relationships, and personal growth. Hendricks' writing style is characterized by its approachable and engaging prose, often infused with practical advice and insights drawn from his decades of experience as a therapist and coach. His work encourages readers to embrace their true potential and create a life of abundance and fulfillment.
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