In 'Strangers to Ourselves,' Timothy D. Wilson delves into the hidden depths of the human mind, revealing how much of our behavior is shaped by unconscious influences. He challenges the notion that we truly understand our motivations and feelings, proposing instead that we are often strangers to ourselves. Through compelling research and anecdotes, Wilson explores the power of storytelling in constructing our identities. The book invites readers to question their own self-understanding and the narratives they accept. Will you dare to uncover the stranger within?
By Timothy D. Wilson
Published: 2002
"We are strangers to ourselves, oftentimes standing on the threshold of our own minds, unable to grasp the full extent of our thoughts, feelings, and desires."
"Is introspection the best path to self-knowledge? What are we trying to discover? In a tour of the unconscious, as contemporary psychological science has redefined it, Timothy D. Wilson introduces a hidden mental world of judgements, feelings, and motives that introspection may never show."--Global Books in Print.
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“We are strangers to ourselves, oftentimes standing on the threshold of our own minds, unable to grasp the full extent of our thoughts, feelings, and desires.”
Strangers to Ourselves
By Timothy D. Wilson
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Timothy D. Wilson is an esteemed author and psychologist renowned for his groundbreaking work in the field of social psychology. He is the author of several influential books, including "Strangers to Ourselves: Discovering the Adaptive Unconscious," which explores the hidden motives behind human behavior, and "Redirect: The Surprising New Science of Psychological Change," where he delves into innovative approaches for personal growth and transformation. Wilson's writing style is characterized by a blend of rigorous scientific research and accessible prose, making complex psychological concepts relatable to a broad audience. His contributions have significantly shaped the understanding of how the unconscious mind influences our decisions and emotions.
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