The Drama of the Gifted Child Book Summary

In 'The Drama of the Gifted Child', psychoanalyst Alice Miller explores the complex emotional landscape surrounding gifted children and their often unrecognized struggles. She reveals how these children, popular for their talents, face the burden of expectations that can stifle their true selves. Through poignant case studies, Miller sheds light on the impact of parental demands and societal pressures on the psyche of gifted individuals. This book unravels the often tragic disconnect between external achievement and internal fulfillment. Readers are left questioning what it means to truly nurture and appreciate the gifted, challenging conventional notions of success.

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Published: 2008

""We must re-learn what it is to feel good about ourselves, to enjoy our own company without the need for validation from others.""

Book Review of The Drama of the Gifted Child

The bestselling book on childhood trauma and the enduring effects of repressed anger and pain Why are many of the most successful people plagued by feelings of emptiness and alienation? This wise and profound book has provided millions of readers with an answer--and has helped them to apply it to their own lives. Far too many of us had to learn as children to hide our own feelings, needs, and memories skillfully in order to meet our parents' expectations and win their "love." Alice Miller writes, "When I used the word 'gifted' in the title, I had in mind neither children who receive high grades in school nor children talented in a special way. I simply meant all of us who have survived an abusive childhood thanks to an ability to adapt even to unspeakable cruelty by becoming numb.... Without this 'gift' offered us by nature, we would not have survived." But merely surviving is not enough. The Drama of the Gifted Child helps us to reclaim our life by discovering our own crucial needs and our own truth.

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