In "The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work," renowned relationship expert John Gottman reveals the essential keys to nurturing a lasting partnership. Drawing on decades of research, he uncovers the behaviors that can either strengthen or weaken a marriage. From mastering effective communication to fostering deep emotional connections, each principle offers practical strategies to navigate conflicts and deepen intimacy. With compelling anecdotes and actionable insights, this book empowers couples to transform their relationships into thriving unions. Dive in to discover how to unlock the secrets of a truly harmonious marriage!
By John Gottman, PhD, Nan Silver
Published: 2015
"Successful relationships are built on a foundation of shared values, mutual respect, and open communication."
NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER • Over a million copies sold! “An eminently practical guide to an emotionally intelligent—and long-lasting—marriage.”—Daniel Goleman, author of Emotional Intelligence The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work has revolutionized the way we understand, repair, and strengthen marriages. John Gottman’s unprecedented study of couples over a period of years has allowed him to observe the habits that can make—and break—a marriage. Here is the culmination of that work: the seven principles that guide couples on a path toward a harmonious and long-lasting relationship. Straightforward yet profound, these principles teach partners new approaches for resolving conflicts, creating new common ground, and achieving greater levels of intimacy. Gottman offers strategies and resources to help couples collaborate more effectively to resolve any problem, whether dealing with issues related to sex, money, religion, work, family, or anything else. Packed with new exercises and the latest research out of the esteemed Gottman Institute, this revised edition of The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work is the definitive guide for anyone who wants their relationship to attain its highest potential.
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The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work
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John Gottman, PhD, is a renowned psychologist and leading expert in relationship dynamics, particularly in the field of marital stability and divorce prediction. He is the co-founder of the Gottman Institute and has spent over four decades conducting research on what makes relationships successful. Gottman is the author of several bestselling books, including "The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work," "What Makes Love Last?," and "The Relationship Cure." His writing is characterized by a blend of scientific rigor and practical advice, making complex psychological concepts accessible to a broad audience. Through his work, Gottman has transformed the way couples understand and navigate their relationships, emphasizing the importance of communication, emotional intelligence, and interpersonal connection.
Nan Silver is an accomplished author and journalist known for her insightful narratives and engaging storytelling. With a background in writing for various publications, she has a knack for weaving personal and cultural themes into her work. Silver's notable works include acclaimed titles such as The Art of Understanding Yourself and Journey to the Heart, which explore the complexities of human emotions and relationships. Her writing style is characterized by its clarity, empathy, and a deep understanding of psychological nuances, making her books resonate with readers seeking both inspiration and reflection. A passionate advocate for mental well-being and self-discovery, Silver continues to contribute to the literary landscape with her thought-provoking insights and relatable prose.
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