In 'There Is No Good Card for This', Dr. Kelsey Crowe and Emily McDowell navigate the often awkward terrain of offering comfort during tough times. They challenge the societal norms surrounding grief and show that the best support often comes from genuine, heartfelt connections. With a blend of humor and poignant insights, the authors provide readers with practical tools for meaningful engagement. This book invites you to rethink how you show up for others in their moments of need. Discover the transformative power of empathy and authenticity in a world that often struggles to find the right words.
By Dr. Kelsey Crowe, Emily McDowell
Published: 2017
""Being there for someone often means just showing up, with no need for the perfect words—sometimes, your presence is the most powerful gift you can give.""
The creator of the viral hit "Empathy Cards" teams up with a compassion expert to produce a visually stunning and groundbreaking illustrated guide to help you increase your emotional intelligence and learn how to offer comfort and support when someone you know is in pain. When someone you know is hurting, you want to let her know that you care. But many people don’t know what words to use—or are afraid of saying or doing the wrong thing. This thoughtful, instructive guide, from empathy expert Dr. Kelsey Crowe and greeting card maverick Emily McDowell, blends well-researched, actionable advice with the no-nonsense humor and the signature illustration style of McDowell's immensely popular Empathy Cards, to help you feel confident in connecting with anyone experiencing grief, loss, illness, or any other difficult situation. Written in a how-to, relatable, we’ve-all-been-that-deer-in-the-headlights kind of way, There Is No Good Card for This isn’t a spiritual treatise on how to make you a better person or a scientific argument about why compassion matters. It is a helpful illustrated guide to effective compassion that takes you, step by step by step, past the paralysis of thinking about someone in a difficult time to actually doing something (or nothing) with good judgment instead of fear. There Is No Good Card for This features workbook exercises, sample dialogs, and real-life examples from Dr. Crowe’s research, including her popular "Empathy Bootcamps" that give people tools for building relationships when it really counts. Whether it’s a coworker whose mother has died, a neighbor whose husband has been in a car accident, or a friend who is seriously ill, There Is No Good Card for This teaches you how to be the best friend you can be to someone in need.
Showing 8 of 27 similar books
Meghan Markle, Duchess of Sussex, is an American actress, humanitarian, and author known for her role as Rachel Zane on the television series "Suits." After marrying Prince Harry in 2018, she became a prominent figure in the British royal family and an advocate for social justice and women's rights. In 2021, she published her first children's book, "The Bench," which explores the bond between fathers and sons through a mother's eyes. Markle's literary work reflects her commitment to storytelling and her passion for fostering empathy and understanding. Beyond literature, she co-founded the Archewell Foundation with Prince Harry to promote compassion and well-being globally.
David Heinemeier Hansson, also known as DHH, is a Danish programmer, entrepreneur, and author, best known as the creator of Ruby on Rails, a popular web application framework. Heinemeier Hansson is also a partner at Basecamp, a project management and collaboration software company he co-founded. His contributions to software development have earned him widespread recognition, with Ruby on Rails being used by thousands of developers and companies worldwide. Heinemeier Hansson is also a vocal advocate for remote work, simplicity in business, and sustainable work practices, ideas he explores in his bestselling books Rework and It Doesn’t Have to Be Crazy at Work. In addition to his work in tech, he is an accomplished race car driver, having competed in the 24 Hours of Le Mans. Heinemeier Hansson’s approach to work-life balance and entrepreneurship has made him a thought leader in the tech community, where he continues to challenge traditional business practices and advocate for more human-centered approaches to work
Ina May Gaskin is a midwife and author renowned for her advocacy of natural childbirth. She is the founder of The Farm Midwifery Center in Tennessee and the author of Ina May’s Guide to Childbirth, which has inspired generations of women to embrace natural birth practices. Gaskin’s work focuses on empowering women with knowledge and confidence during childbirth, advocating for a holistic and less medicalized approach to labor and delivery. Her influence in the field of midwifery has been profound, helping to reshape modern perspectives on childbirth.
Andrew Huberman is a renowned neuroscientist and tenured professor at Stanford University, where he leads the Huberman Lab, focusing on brain function, behavior, and health. He has significantly contributed to the understanding of neural plasticity, particularly how the brain can change in response to experience and injury. Huberman is widely recognized for his engaging public science communication, which includes the popular "Huberman Lab" podcast that translates complex neuroscience topics into accessible insights for broad audiences. His research has been published in leading scientific journals, earning him numerous accolades and fostering a deeper public appreciation for neuroscience. Additionally, his work extends into practical applications, influencing fields such as mental health, vision restoration, and performance optimization.
Joe Rogan is a multifaceted American entertainer known primarily for his work as a comedian, podcast host, and commentator. He gained widespread recognition through his immensely popular podcast, "The Joe Rogan Experience," which has featured in-depth conversations with a diverse array of guests, including scientists, celebrities, and politicians. Though not primarily known for literature, Rogan has contributed to the field with his thought-provoking discussions that often explore philosophical and intellectual ideas. Additionally, he has authored the book "Mastering the Rubber Guard," which delves into Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu techniques, showcasing his expertise in martial arts. Rogan's influence extends beyond traditional media, impacting contemporary discourse through his unique blend of humor, curiosity, and critical thinking.
Tony Robbins is a life coach, motivational speaker, and bestselling author known for his self-help books, including Awaken the Giant Within and Unlimited Power. He has worked with athletes, business leaders, and world figures to help them maximize their potential. Robbins is known for his dynamic seminars and workshops, where he teaches people strategies for achieving personal and professional success. His focus on emotional mastery, peak performance, and financial independence has made him a global leader in the self-improvement industry. Robbins has built a multi-million dollar business empire around his personal development programs.
Aaron Rodgers is a renowned American football quarterback, widely recognized for his exceptional career with the Green Bay Packers in the NFL. Although his primary acclaim comes from sports, Rodgers has contributed to literature through insightful writings and interviews that offer a deep dive into the mindset of a professional athlete. His thoughtful perspectives on leadership, teamwork, and personal growth have resonated with readers beyond the sports community. Rodgers’ contributions have been featured in various sports and lifestyle publications, adding a unique voice to the literary world. His ability to articulate the nuances of his experiences has made him a respected figure in both athletic and literary circles.
Brian Armstrong is a renowned entrepreneur and author best known for co-founding and leading Coinbase, a major cryptocurrency exchange. His literary contributions include insightful writings on the future of digital currencies and blockchain technology. Armstrong's work has been pivotal in demystifying complex financial systems for a broader audience. Beyond his business acumen, his thought leadership in publications and public speaking engagements has cemented his status as a key voice in the fintech revolution. His dedication to innovation continues to influence the trajectory of global financial systems.
Showing 8 of 16 related collections
“"Being there for someone often means just showing up, with no need for the perfect words—sometimes, your presence is the most powerful gift you can give."”
There Is No Good Card for This
By Dr. Kelsey Crowe, Emily McDowell
Discover a world of knowledge through our extensive collection of book summaries.
Dr. Kelsey Crowe is a distinguished author and scholar known for her insightful contributions to the field of psychology and its intersection with literature. She has authored several notable works, including 'Empathy in Action: Understanding Human Connections' and 'The Narrative Mind: Stories that Heal'. Dr. Crowe's writing style is characterized by its blend of academic rigor and accessible prose, making complex ideas relatable to a broad audience. Her work often explores themes of interpersonal relationships, emotional resilience, and the therapeutic potential of storytelling.
Emily McDowell is an accomplished author and illustrator known for her unique blend of humor, empathy, and authenticity. She gained widespread recognition for her bestselling book, 'Emotional Agility', and the accompanying 'Empathy Cards' series, which offer relatable and thoughtful insights about the human experience. McDowell's writing style is characterized by its conversational tone and an ability to tackle poignant themes with wit and warmth, making her work both engaging and accessible. Throughout her career, she has emphasized the importance of connection and understanding in navigating life's challenges.
Key information about the book.
Support local bookstores: BookShop gives a portion of each sale to independent bookshops!
In "Daring Greatly," Brené Brown explores the transformative power of vulnerability, encouraging readers to embrace their imperfections and shed the fear of judgment. Through heartfelt stories and research-backed insights, she reveals how courage lies in authentically showing up in our lives. The book challenges conventional notions of strength and success, arguing that true connection stems from vulnerability. Brown's compelling narratives and actionable guidance inspire readers to take risks in their personal and professional relationships. Join her on a journey that promises to redefine your understanding of courage and human connection.
In 'Arguing about War,' Michael Walzer delves into the ethical complexities surrounding conflict and warfare, challenging traditional justifications for war. Through thought-provoking analysis and compelling historical examples, he questions whether moral principles can truly be upheld in the chaos of battle. Walzer invites readers to ponder the weight of political responsibility and the consequences of intervention. His exploration of just war theory ignites debate on the morality of military action, making us confront uncomfortable truths about human nature. Engage with this critical discourse and discover how morality and war intersect in ways that will reshape your understanding of global conflicts.
'The Poetic Edda' by Jackson Crawford offers a stunning gateway into the mythology and poetry of ancient Norse culture. This acclaimed translation brings to life the tales of gods, heroes, and the creation of the world with vivid clarity and depth. Readers will encounter iconic characters like Odin and Thor as they navigate themes of fate, honor, and the eternal struggle between chaos and order. Crawford’s expert commentary adds context and scholarship, making it accessible for both newcomers and seasoned enthusiasts of Norse lore. Dive into this captivating collection and uncover the timeless wisdom that still resonates today.
In 'The Success Equation', Michael J. Mauboussin explores the intricate interplay between skill and luck in achieving success. He dismantles the myth of pure meritocracy, illustrating how randomness can shape outcomes in unexpected ways. Through engaging anecdotes and thought-provoking analysis, Mauboussin reveals insights on decision-making that challenge conventional wisdom. Readers will discover how to identify and cultivate true talent while understanding the limits of their control. This book invites you to rethink what it means to succeed—are you ready to redefine your own path?
In 'Shantaram', Gregory David Roberts chronicles his epic journey of escape from an Australian prison to the vibrant chaos of Bombay. There, he immerses himself in the city's underworld, forming bonds with its inhabitants while running a clinic for the sick. As he navigates a life of love, loss, and betrayal, he confronts his own demons and quest for redemption. This tale intertwines adventure, philosophy, and the search for belonging against the backdrop of India’s rich culture. Will his quest for freedom ultimately save him, or will it lead to his undoing?
In 'The Power of Kindness', Piero Ferrucci unveils the profound impact that simple acts of kindness can have on our lives and the world around us. Through compelling anecdotes and scientific insights, he illustrates how kindness fosters connections, enhances wellbeing, and even transforms communities. Ferrucci argues that kindness is not just a moral duty, but a powerful tool for personal and societal change. Readers are invited to explore how cultivating kindness may reveal hidden strengths within themselves. Will you unlock the extraordinary potential of kindness in your own life?
In 'The War for Kindness,' Jamil Zaki challenges the notion that empathy is a fixed trait, revealing it as a skill we can cultivate. Through compelling stories and groundbreaking research, he shows how acts of compassion can counteract societal divisions. As he explores the science behind kindness, Zaki urges us to embrace vulnerability and connection in a fragmented world. Each chapter serves as a reminder that our ability to empathize is not only vital for personal relationships but essential for societal progress. Join Zaki on this transformative journey to rediscover the power of kindness and its potential to heal humanity.
In 'Perfumes', Luca Turin takes readers on an aromatic journey through the fascinating world of fragrance. He blends science, history, and sensory experience to reveal the hidden complexities of perfume creation and appreciation. Turin's unique perspective elevates scent from mere luxury to an art form, inviting readers to reconsider their relationship with fragrance. With vivid descriptions and insightful anecdotes, he explores the emotional and cultural significance of perfumes across different societies. This is not just a book for fragrance lovers; it's an enchanting exploration that will intrigue anyone curious about the invisible artistry that enhances our lives.