To Be Real
In 'To Be Real,' Rebecca Edby Walker navigates the intricate landscape of authenticity and identity in a world steeped in illusion. Her poignant narratives weave together personal experiences and social commentary, challenging readers to confront the masks they wear. As Walker delves into issues of race, gender, and self-expression, she poses a provocative question: What does it truly mean to be real? With a blend of vulnerability and insight, she invites us into her quest for genuine connection amid societal expectations. Prepare to reflect on your own journey of self-discovery in a compelling exploration of the human experience.
By Rebecca Edby Walker
Published: 1995
"To be real is to embrace the full spectrum of our humanity, to find strength in vulnerability and power in truth."
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A revolutionary exploration of the nature of feminism today, its impact on everyday life, and its promise for the future. Determined to extend the boundaries of feminism to embrace social, political and economic equality for all humanity, these exciting young activists and thinkers recast the concepts of feminism to reflect their own experiences and beliefs. Inspired by activist and writer Rebecca Walker, they speak out, challenging many of their own assumptions about the women's movement and demanding that readers recognize a new relationship between the personal and the political. Black and white, male and female, gay and straight, they fearlessly describe their liberation from the feminist ideals that conflict with the reality of who they are, expose shocking secrets, and acknowledge long-hidden accommodations and anomalies.
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Rebecca Edby Walker
Rebecca Edby Walker is an accomplished author known for her evocative storytelling and profound character development. Her notable works include 'Whispers of the Heart,' a contemporary novel that explores themes of love and loss, and 'Shadows in the Fog,' a historical fiction that intricately weaves personal narratives into the broader tapestry of history. Walker's writing style is characterized by lyrical prose and a deep emotional resonance, drawing readers into the hearts and minds of her characters. She resides in Portland, Oregon, where she continues to write and inspire aspiring authors.
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- Authors
- Rebecca Edby Walker
- Published
- October 1995
- Publisher
- Anchor
- ISBN
- 0385472625
- Language
- English
- Pages
- 337
- Genres
- Cognitive PsychologySelf-HelpSocial PsychologyLiteraturePersonal Growth
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To Be Real
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