In 'You Know You Want This', Kristen Roupenian delves into the complexities of desire, power, and human connection through a series of provocative short stories. Each tale unveils the darker sides of intimacy and explores the thin line between longing and repulsion. Roupenian's sharp, insightful prose challenges societal norms and invites readers to confront their own hidden desires. As the characters navigate relationships fraught with tension and uncertainty, they reveal what we often refuse to acknowledge about ourselves. This collection will leave you questioning the nature of attraction and the consequences of our most secret cravings.
By Kristen Roupenian
Published: 2019
"We are all haunted by the shadows of our desires, and sometimes it takes a dark turn to understand the light."
“What’s special about ‘Cat Person,’ and the rest of the stories in You Know You Want This, is the author’s expert control of language, character, story—her ability to write stories that feel told, and yet so unpretentious and accessible that we think they must be true.” —The New York Times Book Review “Kristen Roupenian isn’t just an uncannily great writer, she also knows things about the human psyche—things that I always supposed I would learn at some point, but never did. Some of these things are about men’s minds in particular and I’m pretty sure she’s right. The world has made a lot more sense since reading this book.” —Miranda July, New York Times bestselling author of The First Bad Man “If you think you know what this collection will be like, you’re wrong. These stories are sharp and perverse, dark and bizarre, unrelenting and utterly bananas. I love them so, so much.” —Carmen Maria Machado, National Book Award Finalist and author of Her Body and Other Parties A compulsively readable collection of short stories that explore the complex—and often darkly funny—connections between gender, sex, and power across genres. You Know You Want This brilliantly explores the ways in which women are horrifying as much as it captures the horrors that are done to them. Among its pages are a couple who becomes obsessed with their friend hearing them have sex, then seeing them have sex…until they can’t have sex without him; a ten-year-old whose birthday party takes a sinister turn when she wishes for “something mean”; a woman who finds a book of spells half hidden at the library and summons her heart’s desire: a nameless, naked man; and a self-proclaimed “biter” who dreams of sneaking up behind and sinking her teeth into a green-eyed, long-haired, pink-cheeked coworker. Spanning a range of genres and topics—from the mundane to the murderous and supernatural—these are stories about sex and punishment, guilt and anger, the pleasure and terror of inflicting and experiencing pain. These stories fascinate and repel, revolt and arouse, scare and delight in equal measure. And, as a collection, they point a finger at you, daring you to feel uncomfortable—or worse, understood—as if to say, “You want this, right? You know you want this.”
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“We are all haunted by the shadows of our desires, and sometimes it takes a dark turn to understand the light.”
You Know You Want This
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Kristen Roupenian is an acclaimed author and short story writer, best known for her viral New Yorker story "Cat Person," which explores themes of modern dating and female experience. Her debut collection, "You Know You Want This," delves into the complexities of desire, power, and the intricacies of personal relationships, often with a darkly humorous and psychologically incisive touch. Roupenian's writing style is characterized by its sharp wit, bold examination of contemporary social dynamics, and an ability to capture the subtleties of human interaction.
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