Getting to 50/50

In "Getting to 50/50," authors Sharon Meers and Joanna Strober unravel the complexities of modern partnerships, challenging traditional gender roles in parenting and careers. Through compelling anecdotes and research-backed insights, they advocate for a balanced approach to shared responsibilities, sparking a movement towards equity at home and in the workplace. The book's vivid narratives highlight both the struggles and triumphs couples face when striving for true partnership. Readers will find practical guidance and inspiration for navigating the path to a more balanced life. Will you join the quest to redefine family dynamics and unlock the potential of 50/50 living?

By Sharon Meers, Joanna Strober

Published: 2013

"The goal is to create a partnership where both partners feel equally valued and supported."

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Sharon Meers and Joanna Strober are professionals, wives, and mothers. They understand the challenges and rewards of two-career households. They also know that families thrive not in spite of working mothers but because of them. You can have a great career, a great marriage, and be a great mother. The key is tapping into your best resource and most powerful ally—the man you married. After interviewing hundreds of parents and employers, surveying more than a thousand working mothers, and combing through the latest government and social science research, the authors have discovered that kids, husbands, and wives all reap huge benefits when couples commit to share equally as breadwinners and caregivers. Mothers work without guilt, fathers bond with their kids, and children blossom with the attention of two involved parents. The starting point? An attitude shift that puts you on the road to 50/50—plus the positive step-by-step advice in this book. From “baby boot camp” for new dads to exactly what to say when negotiating a leave with the boss, this savvy book offers fresh ideas to today’s families offering encouragement, hope, and confidence to any woman who has ever questioned her choices regarding work and family.

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Sharon Meers

Sharon Meers is an accomplished author and advocate, renowned for her insightful exploration of themes related to parenting, work-life balance, and women's empowerment. She is best known for her co-authorship of the influential book "Getting to 50/50: How Working Parents Can Have It All," written alongside Joanna Strober. This work has garnered critical acclaim for its practical strategies and comprehensive approach to helping modern families thrive amid the demands of career and home life.

Meers' writing is characterized by a blend of personal anecdotes and research-backed insights, making complex subjects accessible and relatable to a broad audience. Her ability to weave together storytelling with actionable advice resonates with readers seeking to navigate the challenges of juggling professional and personal responsibilities.

In addition to her writing, Sharon Meers has a background in business and public policy, which informs her perspective on the intersection of work and family life. Her contributions have sparked important conversations around equality and the evolving roles of parents in today’s society. Meers continues to be a prominent voice in discussions surrounding gender equity and the future of work.

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Joanna Strober

Joanna Strober is an accomplished author and advocate known for her engaging and insightful writing, particularly in the realms of children’s literature and personal narratives. With a focus on themes of resilience, family, and identity, Strober's notable works include "The Girl Who Thought in Pictures: The Story of Dr. Temple Grandin," a biographical picture book that celebrates the life and achievements of the renowned autism advocate, as well as "When You’re Not You," a poignant exploration of identity and self-acceptance.

Strober's writing style combines lyrical prose with a strong sense of empathy, making complex subjects accessible to both young readers and adults alike. In addition to her literary contributions, she has also been active in initiatives promoting autism awareness and education. Through her work, Joanna Strober continues to inspire and empower readers, fostering a deeper understanding of diverse perspectives and experiences.

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Authors
Sharon Meers, Joanna Strober
Published
September 2013
Publisher
Simon and Schuster
ISBN
1936740672
Language
English
Pages
300
Genres
Women EmpowermentWomenParentingParenting TechniquesWomen in Leadership

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The goal is to create a partnership where both partners feel equally valued and supported.

Getting to 50/50

By Sharon Meers, Joanna Strober

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