In 'Getting to 'I Do', Pat Allen and Sandra Harmon unveil the secrets of effective communication and emotional intelligence in relationships. The book guides readers through the intricate dance of dating and commitment, providing tools to navigate the complexities of love. With insightful anecdotes and practical exercises, it empowers individuals to understand their needs and desires. Dive into a transformative exploration of self-discovery and connection that challenges conventional dating norms. Discover how to shift from feeling lost in love to confidently finding your ideal partner.
By Pat Allen, Sandra Harmon
Published: 1995
"Love is not about finding the right person, but about being the right person for someone else."
Dr. Patricia Allen's jam-packed seminars in Los Angeles have resulted in over two thousand marriages. Now you too can take advantage of this proven step-by-step program. Here's what you'll learn: How to attract the right man When you should make the first move...and when you should not Why equality in a relationship may not be what you're looking for Why sex before commitment is a bad deal How to have sensational sex What makes a man run away from a relationship How to know when you're giving too much How to get what you want without asking What makes a man want to commit How to BE ENGAGED TO THE RIGHT MAN WITHIN A YEAR!
Pat Allen is a celebrated author known for her thought-provoking novels that explore themes of identity, community, and personal growth. With a distinct writing style that blends lyrical prose with deep psychological insights, Allen captivates readers with her nuanced characters and intricate plots. Her notable works include "The Family We Choose," a powerful exploration of chosen family dynamics, and "Finding Home," which delves into the complexities of belonging in modern society. A recipient of multiple literary awards, Pat Allen's contributions to contemporary literature continue to resonate with audiences around the world.
Sandra Harmon is an acclaimed author known for her compelling narratives and rich character development. Her notable works include 'The Silent Echoes', which explores the complexities of human relationships, and 'Whispers of the Past', a historical fiction that weaves together personal and collective histories. Harmon’s writing style is characterized by its lyrical prose and emotional depth, often blending elements of mystery and drama to engage readers. With a background in psychology, she brings a unique perspective to her storytelling, making her work both thought-provoking and relatable.
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“Love is not about finding the right person, but about being the right person for someone else.”
Getting to 'I Do'
By Pat Allen, Sandra Harmon
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