In 'Love for Imperfect Things', Haemin Sunim invites readers to embrace the beauty of flaws and imperfections in themselves and others. Through tender anecdotes and insightful reflections, he explores the transformative power of love and acceptance in a world fixated on perfection. Sunim's gentle wisdom resonates deeply, encouraging readers to cultivate compassion and mindfulness amidst life's chaos. This book serves as a soothing balm for those grappling with self-doubt and the pressures of modern life. Discover how to find joy and authenticity by loving the imperfect things in life.
By Haemin Sunim
Published: 2018
"Embrace your flaws; they are the threads that weave the beautiful tapestry of your existence."
Susan Cain, New York Times bestselling author of Quiet: "The world could surely use a little more love, a little more compassion, and a little more wisdom. In Love for Imperfect Things, Haemin Sunim shows us how to cultivate all three, and to find beauty in the most imperfect of things--including your very own self." A #1 internationally bestselling book of spiritual wisdom about learning to love ourselves, with all our imperfections, by the Buddhist author of The Things You Can See Only When You Slow Down Hearing the words "be good to yourself first, then to others" was like being struck by lightning. Many of us respond to the pressures of life by turning inward and ignoring problems, sometimes resulting in anxiety or depression. Others react by working harder at the office, at school, or at home, hoping that this will make ourselves and the people we love happier. But what if being yourself is enough? Just as we are advised on airplanes to take our own oxygen first before helping others, we must first be at peace with ourselves before we can be at peace with the world around us. In this beautiful follow-up to his international bestseller The Things You Can See Only When You Slow Down, Zen Buddhist monk Haemin Sunim turns his trademark wisdom to the art of self-care, arguing that only by accepting yourself--and the flaws that make you who you are--can you have compassionate and fulfilling relationships with your partner, your family, and your friends. With more than thirty-five full-color illustrations, Love for Imperfect Things will appeal to both your eyes and your heart, and help you learn to love yourself, your life, and everyone in it. When you care for yourself first, the world begins to find you worthy of care.
Haemin Sunim is a renowned Korean Zen master, teacher, and author, celebrated for his ability to convey profound wisdom with simplicity and accessibility. His notable works include the bestsellers "The Things You Can See Only When You Slow Down" and "Love for Imperfect Things," which offer insights into mindfulness and self-acceptance. Sunim's writing style blends gentle humor with deep philosophical insights, often incorporating personal anecdotes and mindfulness practices to inspire readers. His teachings encourage a compassionate and mindful approach to the complexities of modern life.
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