The Crossroads of Should and Must Book Summary

In 'The Crossroads of Should and Must,' Elle Luna invites readers to explore the tension between societal expectations and personal fulfillment. Through her compelling narrative, she encourages individuals to uncover their true passions by embracing the 'Must' over the 'Should.' With beautiful illustrations and heartfelt anecdotes, Luna guides us on a journey of self-discovery, urging us to prioritize our dreams in the face of external pressures. This transformative book challenges us to re-evaluate our choices and ignite our potential. Are you ready to choose your 'Must' and live authentically?

By Elle Luna

Published: 2015

"You have a choice: you can live your life based on what others expect of you, or you can choose to follow your own true calling."

Book Review of The Crossroads of Should and Must

Who hasn’t asked the question “How can I find and follow my true calling?” Elle Luna frames this moment as “standing at the crossroads of Should and Must.” “Should” is what we feel we ought to be doing, or what is expected of us. “Must” is the thing we dream of doing, our heart’s desire. And it was her own personal journey that inspired Elle Luna to write a brief online manifesto that, in a few short months, has touched hundreds of thousands of people who’ve read it or heard Elle speak on the topic. Now Ms. Luna expands her ideas into an inspirational, highly visual gift book for every recent graduate, every artist, every seeker, every career changer. The Crossroads of Should and Must has a universal message—we get to choose the path between Should and Must. And it gives every reader permission to embrace this message. It’s about the difference between jobs, careers, and callings. The difference between going to work and becoming one with your work. Why knowing what you want is often the hardest part. It gives eye-opening techniques for reconnecting with one’s inner voice, like writing your own obituary (talk about putting life in perspective). It talks about the most common fears of choosing Must over Should—money, time, space, and the ultimate fear: total vulnerability—and shores up our hesitation with inspiring stories of and quotes from the artists and writers and thinkers who’ve faced their own crossroads of Should and Must and taken the leap. It explains the importance of mistakes, of “unlearning,” of solitude, of keeping moving, of following a soul path. Presented in four chapters—The Crossroads, The Origin of Should, Must, and The Return—inspired by the hero’s journey outlined by Joseph Campbell, The Crossroads of Should and Must guides us from the small moment, discovering our Must, to the big moment—actually doing something about it, and returning to share our new gifts with the world.

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You have a choice: you can live your life based on what others expect of you, or you can choose to follow your own true calling.

The Crossroads of Should and Must

By Elle Luna