In 'Trick Mirror,' Jia Tolentino navigates the complexities of modern life through a series of insightful essays that intertwine personal anecdotes with sharp social commentary. She explores the nuances of identity, the impact of the internet, and the entanglements of feminism and capitalism. Each essay acts as a mirror reflecting the contradictions of contemporary existence, challenging readers to confront their own beliefs and behaviors. With wit and candor, Tolentino delves into the uncomfortable truths that shape our realities. This compelling collection leaves a lasting impression, urging us to question what we see and how we see it.
By Jia Tolentino
Published: 2019
"We are all trapped in the mirrors of our own making, reflecting back the truths and lies we choose to see."
NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER - "From The New Yorker's beloved cultural critic comes a bold, unflinching collection of essays about self-deception, examining everything from scammer culture to reality television."--Esquire "A whip-smart, challenging book."--Zadie Smith - "Jia Tolentino could be the Joan Didion of our time."--Vulture NAMED ONE OF THE TEN BEST BOOKS OF THE YEAR BY THE NEW YORK PUBLIC LIBRARY AND ONE OF THE BEST BOOKS OF THE YEAR BY The New York Times Book Review - Time - The Washington Post - Esquire - Elle - Glamour - Good Housekeeping - The Dallas Morning News - BookPage Jia Tolentino is a peerless voice of her generation, tackling the conflicts, contradictions, and sea changes that define us and our time. Now, in this dazzling collection of nine entirely original essays, written with a rare combination of give and sharpness, wit and fearlessness, she delves into the forces that warp our vision, demonstrating an unparalleled stylistic potency and critical dexterity. Trick Mirror is an enlightening, unforgettable trip through the river of self-delusion that surges just beneath the surface of our lives. This is a book about the incentives that shape us, and about how hard it is to see ourselves clearly through a culture that revolves around the self. In each essay, Tolentino writes about a cultural prism: the rise of the nightmare social internet; the advent of scamming as the definitive millennial ethos; the literary heroine's journey from brave to blank to bitter; the punitive dream of optimization, which insists that everything, including our bodies, should become more efficient and beautiful until we die. Gleaming with Tolentino's sense of humor and capacity to elucidate the impossibly complex in an instant, and marked by her desire to treat the reader with profound honesty, Trick Mirror is an instant classic of the worst decade yet. Praise for Trick Mirror "Jia Tolentino is the best young essayist at work in the United States, one I've consistently admired and learned from, and I was exhilarated to get a whole lot of her at once in Trick Mirror. In these nine essays, she rethinks troubling ingredients of modern life, from the internet to mind-altering drugs to wedding culture. All through the book, single sentences flash like lightning to show something familiar in a startling way, but she also builds extended arguments with her usual, unusual blend of lyricism and skepticism. In the end, we have a picture of America that was as missing as it was needed."--Rebecca Solnit, author of Men Explain Things to Me
Jia Tolentino is a celebrated writer and editor known for her incisive essays and cultural commentary. A staff writer at The New Yorker, she has gained acclaim for her ability to blend personal narrative with broader social issues, reflecting on the complexities of modern life. Her notable works include the essay collection "Trick Mirror," which explores themes of identity, technology, and the self in today’s hyper-connected world. Tolentino's writing style is characterized by its sharp wit, depth of analysis, and an unapologetic exploration of contemporary feminist topics.
Key information about the book.
Support local bookstores: BookShop gives a portion of each sale to independent bookshops!
In "The Immortal Life of Henrietta Lacks," Rebecca Skloot unravels the extraordinary story of a woman whose cancer cells, taken without her knowledge in 1951, became a cornerstone of modern medical research. Henrietta's cells, known as HeLa, defied death and contributed to groundbreaking discoveries, all while her own life remained shrouded in injustice and neglect. Skloot intricately weaves the personal and the scientific, exposing the ethical dilemmas of medical research and the often-overlooked narratives of the individuals behind life-saving advancements. As we journey through Henrietta's life and legacy, we confront questions of race, ethics, and the true meaning of immortality. Discover how one woman's cells changed the course of medicine forever and left a profound impact on her family's quest for recognition and justice.
In 'Naked Statistics', Charles Wheelan demystifies the world of statistics and reveals its crucial role in everyday decision-making. Through engaging anecdotes and humorous insights, he illustrates how statistical concepts can be both intriguing and practical. Wheelan empowers readers to interpret data with confidence, highlighting common pitfalls in reasoning. This accessible guide transforms what many see as a dry subject into a captivating exploration of the power of numbers. Dive into the world of statistics and discover how it can illuminate your understanding of the world!
In 'Theft by Finding', David Sedaris invites readers into his whimsical and often darkly humorous world, chronicling his life through a series of poignant diary entries. From the absurdities of everyday life to his encounters with eccentric characters, Sedaris's keen observations shine a light on the quirks of humanity. Each entry reveals the intricacies of personal growth and the complexities of family dynamics, all delivered with Sedaris's trademark wit. As he navigates the challenges of adulthood and his unique path as a writer, readers are left questioning their own experiences and the art of storytelling. This collection is not just a reflection of Sedaris’s life but a mirror held up to our own, urging us to find meaning in the mundane.
'The Passion Paradox' explores the fine line between passion and burnout in the pursuit of excellence. Authors Brad Stulberg and Steve Magness reveal how an obsession with success can lead to detrimental consequences, undermining both performance and personal well-being. Through engaging stories and scientific research, they offer insights on cultivating healthier passion that fuels achievement without sacrificing mental health. This compelling read challenges the traditional views of success, motivating readers to rethink their drive and ambition. Are you navigating the perilous waters of passion in your own life?
In 'Blueprint', Robert Plomin unveils the groundbreaking role of genetics in shaping our personalities, intelligence, and life outcomes. He reveals how DNA influences not just our physical traits but also our behaviors and social interactions. Through compelling research and personal anecdotes, Plomin challenges the long-held belief that environment is the primary architect of who we are. The new afterword explores the profound implications of genetic discoveries for education, society, and individual identity. Dare to rethink your understanding of nature versus nurture and discover the blueprint that defines you.
In 'The Gaza Kitchen,' Laila M. El-Haddad and Maggie Schmitt unveil the rich tapestry of Gazan culinary traditions against the backdrop of a complex socio-political landscape. Through vibrant recipes and captivating personal stories, they explore how food embodies resilience and identity in a besieged region. The book serves as both a cookbook and a poignant narrative, inviting readers to experience the flavors of Gaza while understanding the struggles of its people. Each dish tells a story of heritage, love, and survival, sparking curiosity about the culture and history behind the ingredients. This unique culinary journey challenges perceptions and encourages a deeper appreciation for the role of food in bridging divides.
In 'The Holy Man' by Susan Trott, a weary and disillusioned world is transformed by the arrival of a mysterious spiritual figure. This man, seemingly blessed with wisdom and kindness, begins to challenge the norms and values of everyday life. As people from all walks of life gravitate toward him, they experience profound changes that force them to confront their own beliefs and desires. With humor and heart, Trott weaves a narrative that explores the essence of faith, love, and the search for meaning. Will the Holy Man's influence transcend the tangible, or will he remain a fleeting glimpse of enlightenment in an often chaotic world?
In 'Rocket Surgery Made Easy', Steve Krug demystifies the process of usability testing, arguing that it's not rocket science—it's just common sense. Krug presents simple, practical techniques that anyone can use to identify and fix usability issues in their designs. Through engaging anecdotes and clear instruction, he empowers teams to enhance user experience without the need for extensive resources or expertise. This book transforms the way we think about user testing, making it accessible and effective for all. Prepare to revolutionize your approach to design and make your products truly user-friendly!
Showing 8 of 29 similar books

Abi Tyas Tunggal is a distinguished author known for his impactful contributions to contemporary literature and digital content. He has garnered acclaim for his insightful storytelling and adept handling of complex themes, resonating with a diverse readership. Tunggal's work often explores the intersections of technology, society, and human experience, making him a prominent voice in modern narrative arts. Beyond his literary achievements, he is also recognized for his innovative use of digital platforms to engage with and expand his audience. Tunggal continues to influence the literary landscape with his thought-provoking and accessible writing.

Dwayne "The Rock" Johnson is an American actor, producer, and former professional wrestler who has become one of the most bankable stars in Hollywood. After rising to fame in WWE, where he became a fan favorite for his charisma and athleticism, Johnson transitioned to acting in the early 2000s. His breakout role came in The Scorpion King and he has since starred in major franchises like Fast & Furious and Jumanji. Known for his larger-than-life personality, work ethic, and versatility, Johnson has successfully built a career in action, comedy, and family films. Outside of acting, Johnson is a philanthropist and entrepreneur, launching his own production company, Seven Bucks Productions, and wellness brands like ZOA energy drink. He is also a social media powerhouse, using his platform to motivate millions and engage with fans. Forbes frequently lists him as one of the highest-paid actors globally, and he remains one of the most influential figures in entertainment.

Joe Rogan is a multifaceted American entertainer known primarily for his work as a comedian, podcast host, and commentator. He gained widespread recognition through his immensely popular podcast, "The Joe Rogan Experience," which has featured in-depth conversations with a diverse array of guests, including scientists, celebrities, and politicians. Though not primarily known for literature, Rogan has contributed to the field with his thought-provoking discussions that often explore philosophical and intellectual ideas. Additionally, he has authored the book "Mastering the Rubber Guard," which delves into Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu techniques, showcasing his expertise in martial arts. Rogan's influence extends beyond traditional media, impacting contemporary discourse through his unique blend of humor, curiosity, and critical thinking.

Dave Chappelle is an American comedian, actor, and writer, widely regarded as one of the greatest stand-up comedians of all time. He gained fame with Chappelle’s Show, a sketch comedy series that offered sharp social commentary on race, politics, and culture. After stepping away from the show at the height of its popularity, Chappelle made a triumphant return to stand-up and has since released several acclaimed specials on Netflix. Known for his fearless humor and insightful critiques of society, Chappelle’s influence on comedy is profound. He continues to perform and speak on issues of race, identity, and justice.

Andrew Lokenauth is a distinguished author and financial expert known for his insightful contributions to personal finance and investment literature. With a career spanning over a decade, he has written extensively on topics such as wealth management, financial planning, and market analysis. Lokenauth's works are celebrated for their clarity and practical advice, making complex financial concepts accessible to a broad audience. He has been featured in numerous financial publications and has established himself as a trusted voice in the industry. Beyond his writing, Lokenauth is also a sought-after speaker, sharing his expertise at various seminars and workshops.

Audrey Gelman is an American entrepreneur and writer, best known as the co-founder and former CEO of The Wing, a network of co-working spaces and social clubs designed for women. She has been recognized for her innovative approach to creating supportive environments for professional women, significantly impacting feminist discourse and workplace equality. Gelman has also contributed thought-provoking essays to prominent publications such as The New York Times and The New Yorker, where she discusses gender, politics, and culture. Her leadership at The Wing has been celebrated for fostering community and collaboration among women. Additionally, Gelman's influence extends to the political sphere, having previously worked as a press aide on several high-profile campaigns.

Barack Obama is the 44th President of the United States, serving from 2009 to 2017. As the first African American president, Obama’s leadership marked a historic moment in American history. His administration focused on healthcare reform, economic recovery from the Great Recession, and environmental policies. He is best known for the Affordable Care Act, as well as his efforts to expand civil rights and restore diplomatic relations with Cuba. Since leaving office, Obama has continued to engage in public life through his foundation, focusing on leadership development, civic engagement, and global issues.

Ann Miura-Ko is a distinguished venture capitalist and co-founding partner at Floodgate, a seed-stage investment firm known for backing transformative tech startups. While not primarily an author in the traditional sense, her thought leadership and influential writings on entrepreneurship and venture capital have shaped industry perspectives. She is a lecturer at Stanford University, where her insights into the intersection of technology and business are highly valued by students and peers alike. Ann is also a founding member of All Raise, an organization dedicated to increasing diversity in venture capital and entrepreneurship. Her contributions to literature primarily lie in her impactful essays and articles that guide and inspire the next generation of innovators.
Showing 8 of 15 related collections
“We are all trapped in the mirrors of our own making, reflecting back the truths and lies we choose to see.”
Trick Mirror
By Jia Tolentino
Discover a world of knowledge through our extensive collection of book summaries.