I Know What I'm Doing -- and Other Lies I Tell Myself
In 'I Know What I'm Doing -- and Other Lies I Tell Myself', Jen Kirkman takes readers on a hilariously candid journey through the complexities of adulthood. With wit and humor, she explores the lies we tell ourselves to navigate life’s challenges, from relationships to personal ambition. Kirkman's relatable anecdotes and sharp observations resonate with anyone who's grappled with self-doubt and the quest for happiness. As she unpacks her own misgivings and aspirations, she invites readers to reflect on their own stories. It's a refreshing and thought-provoking read that will leave you laughing, nodding in agreement, and questioning your own truths.
By Jen Kirkman
Published: 2017
""We all tell ourselves lies to get through the day, but sometimes the truth is the only thing that can set us free.""
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"Jen offers up all the gory details of a life permanently in progress. She reassures you that it's okay to not have life completely figured out, even when you reach middle age (and find your first gray pubic hair). She talks about making unusual or unpopular life decisions (such as cultivating a 'friend with benefits' or not going home for the holidays) because you don't necessarily want for yourself what everyone else seems to think you should. It's about renting when everyone says you should own, dating around when everyone thinks you should settle down, and traveling alone when everyone pities you for going to Paris without a man"--Amazon.com.
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Jen Kirkman
Jen Kirkman is a celebrated author, comedian, and television writer known for her incisive wit and candid storytelling. She has written several notable works including 'I Can Barely Take Care of Myself,' 'You'll Grow Out of It,' and 'My Own Words.' Her writing often explores themes of personal struggle, feminism, and the complexities of modern life with humor and authenticity. Jen's unique voice and perspective have garnered her a loyal following and critical acclaim in both the literary and entertainment worlds.
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- Authors
- Jen Kirkman
- Published
- April 2017
- Publisher
- Simon and Schuster
- ISBN
- 147677028X
- Language
- English
- Pages
- 272
- Genres
- Self-HelpPersonal Growth
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