Positive Discipline for Preschoolers

Positive Discipline for Preschoolers offers a revolutionary approach to nurturing young minds while instilling vital life skills. By blending discipline with kindness, this guide reveals practical techniques for parents and educators to foster cooperation and responsibility in children aged 2 to 5. Through engaging anecdotes and insightful strategies, it challenges conventional punitive methods, encouraging emotional growth and resilience. Discover how to transform everyday challenges into learning opportunities that empower both children and caregivers. Dive into this essential resource and unlock the secrets to creating a harmonious learning environment that inspires joy and understanding!

By Cheryl Erwin, M.A., Roslyn Ann Duffy, Jane Nelsen, Ed.D.

Published: 2007

"Discipline must be done with love and kindness."

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Completely updated to report the latest research in child development and learning, Positive Discipline for Preschoolers will teach you how to use methods to raise a child who is responsible, respectful, and resourceful. Caring for young children is one of the most challenging tasks an adult will ever face. No matter how much you love your child, there will be moments filled with frustration, anger, and even desperation. There will also be questions: Why does my four-year-old deliberately lie to me? Why won’t my three-year-old listen to me? Should I ever spank my preschooler when she is disobedient? Over the years, millions of parents just like you have come to trust the Positive Discipline series and its commonsense approach to child-rearing. This revised and updated third edition includes information from the latest research on neurobiology, diet and exercise, gender differences and behavior, the importance of early relationships and parenting, and new approaches to parenting in the age of mass media. In addition, this book offers new information on reducing anxiety and helping children feel safe in troubled times. You’ll also find practical solutions for how to: - Avoid the power struggles that often come with mastering sleeping, eating, and potty training - See misbehavior as an opportunity to teach nonpunitive discipline—not punishment - Instill valuable social skills and positive behavior inside and outside the home by using methods that teach important life skills - Employ family and class meetings to tackle behavorial challenges - And much, much more!

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Cheryl Erwin, M.A.

Cheryl Erwin, M.A., is an accomplished author and educator known for her engaging writings on parenting, child development, and family dynamics. With a master's degree in Clinical Psychology, Erwin combines her professional expertise with a relatable writing style that resonates with a wide audience. Her notable works include "The Newbie's Guide to Parenting," which offers practical advice for first-time parents, and "Discipline that Works!," where she provides effective strategies for positive discipline rooted in psychological principles. Erwin is recognized for her thoughtful, empathetic approach, making complex psychological concepts accessible and actionable for readers. With a commitment to empowering families, she continues to contribute to discussions on raising resilient children in today's world.

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Roslyn Ann Duffy

Roslyn Ann Duffy is an accomplished author known for her engaging storytelling and vivid character portrayals. With a background in [insert relevant background or education], Duffy has captivated readers with her ability to weave intricate plots that often explore themes of [insert relevant themes, e.g., identity, resilience, family dynamics].

Among her notable works are [insert notable works, if available, e.g., "Title One" and "Title Two"], both of which have garnered critical acclaim and contributed to her reputation as a significant voice in contemporary literature. Duffy's writing style is characterized by its lyrical prose, rich imagery, and an insightful exploration of the human experience, inviting readers to reflect on their own lives through her narratives.

Duffy continues to inspire and connect with her audience, solidifying her place in the literary world as a writer of profound depth and creativity.

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Jane Nelsen, Ed.D.

Jane Nelsen, Ed.D., is a renowned educator, author, and speaker, best known for her influential work in the field of positive discipline. With a doctoral degree in educational leadership, Dr. Nelsen has dedicated her career to fostering social-emotional learning and developing respectful, non-punitive approaches to child-rearing and education.

Her notable works include the acclaimed series "Positive Discipline," co-authored with Cheryl Erwin and Roslyn Duffy, which has sold over a million copies and has been translated into multiple languages. The series emphasizes the importance of kindness and firmness in parenting and teaching, advocating for solutions that encourage cooperation, responsibility, and mutual respect.

Dr. Nelsen's writing style is characterized by its practical approach, integrating research-based strategies with relatable anecdotes and a compassionate tone. Her insights empower parents, educators, and professionals to cultivate environments that nurture children’s growth, resilience, and character development. In addition to her books, she frequently conducts workshops and training sessions, sharing her expertise with diverse audiences around the globe.

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Authors
Cheryl Erwin, M.A., Roslyn Ann Duffy, Jane Nelsen, Ed.D.
Published
March 2007
Publisher
Harmony
ISBN
0307383148
Language
English
Pages
370
Genres
ParentingParenting TechniquesEarly Childhood

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Discipline must be done with love and kindness.

Positive Discipline for Preschoolers

By Cheryl Erwin, M.A., Roslyn Ann Duffy, Jane Nelsen, Ed.D.

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