Selfish Reasons to Have More Kids Book Summary

In 'Selfish Reasons to Have More Kids', economist Bryan Caplan presents a provocative argument that having more children can actually enhance one's happiness and economic well-being. He challenges the commonly held belief that parenting is a burdensome sacrifice, suggesting instead that the joys and benefits of raising kids far outweigh the costs. Caplan draws on research and personal anecdotes to illustrate how children can bring unexpected rewards to their parents' lives. With wit and insight, he encourages readers to rethink their perceptions of family life and the societal pressure to limit offspring. This thought-provoking book will leave you questioning conventional wisdom and contemplating the true value of parenthood.

By Bryan Caplan

Published: 2012

""Raising children is less about the sacrifices you make for them and more about the happiness you can share with them.""

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In Selfish Reasons to Have More Kids, contrarian economist Bryan Caplan argues that we've needlessly turned parenting into an unpleasant chore, and don't know the real plusses and minuses of having kids. Parents today spend more time investing in their kids than ever, but twin and adoption research shows that upbringing is much less important than we imagine, especially in the long-run. Kids aren't like clay that parents mold for life; they're more like flexible plastic that pops back to its original shape once you relax your grip. These revelations are wonderful news for anyone with kids. Being a great parent is less work and more fun than you think—so instead of struggling to change your children, you can safely relax and enjoy your journey together. Raise your children in the way that feels right for you; they'll still probably turn out just fine. Indeed, as Caplan strikingly argues, modern parents should have more kids. Parents who endure needless toil and sacrifice are overcharging themselves for every child. Once you escape the drudgery and worry that other parents take for granted, bringing another child into the world becomes a much better deal. You might want to stock up.

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Bryan Caplan

Bryan Caplan is an American economist, professor, and author, known for his engaging and often provocative writing style that combines rigorous economic theory with accessible language. He is a professor of economics at George Mason University and a senior scholar at the Mercatus Center. Caplan’s notable works include "The Myth of the Rational Voter," where he argues that voters are often ill-informed and biased in their decision-making, and "Selfish Reasons to Have More Kids," which presents a contrarian perspective on parenting and fertility. He is also the author of "Open Borders: The Science and Ethics of Immigration," advocating for the free movement of people. Through his books and articles, Caplan challenges conventional wisdom and encourages readers to think critically about economic policies and social issues.

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Authors
Bryan Caplan
Published
May 2012
Publisher
Basic Books
ISBN
0465028616
Language
English
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N/A
Genres
Health and WellnessParentingParenting TechniquesPersonal Growth

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